Thread: Share a deep connection with this girl-Need advice.

That last line eh? :-D Btw, thanks for your prompt responses. I really felt like talking this out.

She's been with this jerk for 3 yrs, rather known him. Long time to break-off just like that i guess...so called emotional connections...even if he's a kiddo and limp:-D

She does display the urge to be with me...when with me she is completely cut-off from the world around..its just me that she is seeing. So close, yet so far i feel at times.

So take a second and think about this.

If she's cheating on her current B/F.....what do you think the odds are that she'll cheat on you?

I'd say pretty good.

Originally Posted by Kallygirlie

calling him names or talking bad about him will do nothing but push her away so I really really hope you dont say these things to her. You say you talk all the time but yet you say you give her space. Which is it?

I haven ever used or called that guy any such names, i shouldn in the first place and i will not. Just that i don see the reason she is stickin with him. Seems a looser sorts...a man who can't do anything on his own. Needy all the time. Don't know what she sees in him.

We talk all the time as in our interaction is there throughtout the day. Give her space- i mean i not sitting or breathing down her neck all the time.

Originally Posted by Kallygirlie

It's great you guys have a great connection. You've told her how you feel about her right? then thats about all you can do. the rest is in her hands. In the mean time, go out and have fun. meet other girls. My current bf was so hung up on his ex that he couldnt see what was right in front of him. It took me telling him I wasn't waiting around and starting dating other guys. Within a month he was telling me he was done with his ex and wanted to make us work.

Yes, i have told her how i feel bout her in more ways than one. She too has described her feelings as to how she feels when with me, like how her hands feel when i hold them;-) She is all over me...but is holding back...i can sense it easily.

I'm not stuck up on her, that's one thing. Yet i don wanna let go what we share, i just hope she sees this soon. I don think i could ever come across a girl who understood or interacted with me like her...she for sure won't meet any other guy like me, she knows that.

I just want her to realize all this...and move in with me. At times i get very restless thinking where we headed.
I feel of middle of nowhere at times.

Is there anything i can do other than sit back and wait for her :-(

Originally Posted by Kallygirlie

I agree with CW, Your stepping on dangerous territory. They've been together for 3 yrs so obviously at one point she saw something in him. Yes feelings can change but comfort doesnt. the only way she'll leave him is if she's will to risk throwing comfort out the window to take a risk.

Thanks for your response and views Krystal. I know i'm walkin on thin ice..well most of the time.
About the comfort factor- I feel she is more comfortable with me, there is nothing that we don talk bout.
I'm very communicative, unlike most guys. I'm very different that way..even when it comes to understanding a girl.
She knows this all to well..hence our strong connection.