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Reply With Quote17 months early? wow my husband only need 3-4 month to propose me
i'm agree with glitter, maybe he kind a surprise maybe u should take a few days to brought that issue again and see how is he react....if he avoid the subject then u got the clue...
No, he didn't seem unenthused by it. He was definitely surprised. I don't know what to think. I honestly don't think that he is serious so I told him that if he wasn't serious about it and only said it to make me happy that he needs to break up with me and he didn't say anything. I told him again, you need to break up with me if you don't mean it and still he said nothing.Originally Posted by GlitterAndStuds
So... I was joking around with him today and I said, "Well when you're at dinner tonight (with his sister and her family) you can bring up the fact that you're engaged now." He said, "I'll see if it comes up." Then he laughed.
Men...
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
17 months early? wow my husband only need 3-4 month to propose me
i'm agree with glitter, maybe he kind a surprise maybe u should take a few days to brought that issue again and see how is he react....if he avoid the subject then u got the clue...
Haha.. men, indeed. Well he doesn't sound opposed to it. Give him a little bit to let it sink it and get excited about itNo, he didn't seem unenthused by it. He was definitely surprised. I don't know what to think. I honestly don't think that he is serious so I told him that if he wasn't serious about it and only said it to make me happy that he needs to break up with me and he didn't say anything. I told him again, you need to break up with me if you don't mean it and still he said nothing.
So... I was joking around with him today and I said, "Well when you're at dinner tonight (with his sister and her family) you can bring up the fact that you're engaged now." He said, "I'll see if it comes up." Then he laughed.
Men...
I've got to be direct
If I'm off please correct
You're standing on my neck....
De ja vu?
I think that's twice I've heard that this week. And from two different women to boot?
XMISS - I think if you're interested in making a quick recovery from this one, next time you talk to Mr. Marty you might want to tell him you're only in it for the ring.
Haha. That's funny OTYA!
I already talked to him though. We're not engaged. He took it back and said, "You live across the country baby." So... That was enough for me. If that is STILL the issue then he's not serious about moving here and I'm letting it go. We're obviously not meant to be together. A man that loves you, really loves you, will do whatever it takes to be with you and he's not ready to step up to the plate and I'm done waiting.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
Yep. Couldn't have said it better myself.
And a man that really loves and wants you will ask you to marry them.
Now this I know from experience....not just playing the devil's advocate here.
Yep... His love really isn't in question though to be honest. I know he loves me but obviously he doesn't love me enough. I don't know... I'm not even sure how I feel. I never thought he'd say yes so when he did, like I said, I didn't take him seriously. Glad I didn't because I think I would be even more heartbroken right now. I'm in love with him. He's the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't know how to get over him, how to let him go, I just know that I need to.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
First you have to decide its over.
Then time will help.
Yep... His love really isn't in question though to be honest. I know he loves me but obviously he doesn't love me enough. I don't know... I'm not even sure how I feel. I never thought he'd say yes so when he did, like I said, I didn't take him seriously. Glad I didn't because I think I would be even more heartbroken right now. I'm in love with him. He's the one that I want to spend the rest of my life with. I don't know how to get over him, how to let him go, I just know that I need to.
I'm sorry to learn about this, X. Give it time. Do you mean letting go as in breakingup with him, or just letting go of the issue. Just a point of clarification.
What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility. - Leo Tolstoy
The clearest explanation for failure of any marriage is that two people are incompatible; that is, one is male and the other female. - Anna Quindlen
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I mean letting go of the relationship completely. The more the words lingered around in my head tonight, the worse I've felt. It doesn't help that I'm house sitting and am completely alone.
"All the beats and melodies keep realities at bay but what happens when the records done and starts to fade away? Alone within myself again, I try to veil away my pain. The dirty grey surrounding me 'round..... And now I hear no sound."
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