Thread: Issues.

I think women grow soft for men they love. They will do everything for them and give up their lives for them, And not to stereotype, but men (especially immature men) will usually think of themselves first, and if they feel like they can do better, they usually will, but they will still keep you hanging (for back up, or as another option). Conquering women is a way of building their egos, and it makes them feel like a man again. It's a very selfish reason for cheating, and women don't understand because we build emotional connections with lovers. But women love to feel attractive and wanted too.

So I say, stop focusing on him and start focusing on yourself! You are both so young and have plenty of opportunities! With him out of your life, you can feel empowered and sexy again. Right now you are completely emotionally dependent on him, partly because of your love for him, partly because he's the father of your child, but that's not healthy. Be a sexy independent woman! Right now you may not think you can do better but you can, TRUST me. Once he sees that you're over him, he's going to try to seduce you again to fuel his power trip, but don't give him the luxury. I know it's incredibly hard, but you'll thank yourself later. I'm going through the same thing right now (9 year relationship, but no child)...

Move on!