Bows&arrows

Ok, hi i'm new to this website and i just wanted a little advice with something. My girlfriend and i (i'm female ) have been together for over two years and ever since we started having sex i havent really liked my nipples being touched (licked, sucked on, etc). like whenever she does it feels ok at first then it just turns into me feeling uncomfortable and wanting her to stop, but i dont tell her to because she likes doing it. She really likes my breasts and everything (she's crazy about smaller breasts) but it just makes me feel uncomfortable. So, i'm asking two things:

1) If it's normal to not like having ur nipples touched and
2) How should i explain this to her (cause ive never told her about it)

Maybe i dont like them being touched because im not comfortable with my breast size? or could it be something else? im not sure, just wondering. Thanks to anyone who has any advice!

WildChild

It sounds like you need to examine this and try to figure out just what is going on. Does it not arouse you? Overarouse you? Do they start to get sore? Or is a more emotional response, which could be some discomfort with body image? Only you can answer those questions, all we can do is guess.

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Mes_T

Yeah.

I for one don't mind my nipples touched, but it's definitely kind of... boring for me. I just don't have the nerve endings required for it to be pleasurable.

Beautiful Disaster

I've never been crazy about it either. It feels ok, but certainly not great....and after a while of it it's almost as if I go numb. I actually begin to feel agitated if it goes on and on.........ha.

Agree with WC, you really need to know if you just don't like the way it feels, or if you just don't like her being that "up close and personal" with your boobs since you're self conscious about them......

Loveshoes

I have to admit that I have smaller breasts as well. My husband says he doesn't mind it but I have a hard time with them so I usually keep on a shirt. He likes it when I am completely naked with him, but I am incredibly self-conscious about it. Therefore, he can play for a bit but then I move him around to other things because it just doesn't do much for me.

You have to decide if its just the size that makes it uncomfortable or if its not liking the feel of it after a bit.

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Bows&arrows

It just doesn't do anything for me physically really, it happens and i'm like "ok, are u done yet?" i think it might be because i have smaller breasts than most, but i don't know if there could be something wrong with me because i don't like it as much. But it seems like i'm not the only one who doesn't have a reaction to it here i guess it's because i read everywhere and here people talk about how it feels so good and i just don't see what the big deal is about.

WildChild

I love having mine played with. Apparently some women's nipples just aren't too sensitive. How about your breast itself?

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Bows&arrows

i don't really mind the breast itself, but the nipple just doesn't feel right.

Alexandra

Everyone woman is different and likes different things. You might just not like it. You may just want to talk to your partner (outside the bedroom) and mention that, as much as you appreciate her and love that she's trying to make you happy, maybe she could stimulate you in another area as opposed to your nipples. Don't make it about her or her technique, but about what you enjoy.

Bows&arrows

thanks everyone who helped, i just don't exactly know what to think about it