The man I was in a relatonship with and I decided we needed to have closure
This we did over the telephone because the girlfriend could not stomach us doing it in person.
It turned out to be a very good thing. We started off with me expressing what I felt hurt and angry about to clear the air. He explained why he spoke to me the way he did the day I ended it which had nothing to do with his true feelings for me.
We then talked about all the good things, experiences and feelings we shared over the years. There were a lot. This to me is to be our last contact forever. It's hard to predict forever but at least puts me into no contact mode with him.
The closure left me with good feelings between him and I and helps me let go



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