Thread: Rebounding like crazy

you have to face all the hurt and heal your heart completely before getting involved again, otherwise, you will just end up sabbotaging all your future relationships. take your time to heal. you need it. i know that the loneliness can be unbearable that you try to do whatever it takes to feel worthy again. avoid sleeping around just to feel worthy again. right now your self esteem is totally down the drain and sleeping around wont do you any good. whatever you do, don't bury those feelings. allow yourself to feel them no matter painful the process may be. i know that sounds scary but that's what you need to do in order to heal. then when youre ready (and even when you think you dont need a bf anymore) you will begin attracting great men who will treat you right.

youre still young. there's so much more that life has to offer. pick yourself up and move on

i agree with the poster above. you have to allow yourself to have those feelings of hurt and sorry. they are so part of the healing process.

i am a little confused about the breaking up but wanting to be friends thing on his part. was there maybe more to it? that sounds less like what guys do and more what girls do.

i know it'd be awful hard to be friends, at least at first and maybe for quite awhile. but do you think he is being sincere about that?