Thread: Is it possible to move forward??

What do u do when ur s.o. will not let go of the past?? basically, what happened with me was that we got into a pretty serious argument (to the point that we broke up for a few months--and no, no one cheated on anyone). i came back multiple times to apologize, especially since it was mostly my fault. it seemed like he accepted and is ready to move forward, but everytime I think we're doing that, he goes back to what happened several months ago. I've apologized time and time again and even asked him if there's anything that i can do to make things right, but he can never give me a straight answer. I told him that i do not have the strength to keep going back and forth with this. If u truly forgive me, we can let bygones be bygones and move forward. If not, then maybe we need to part ways because I dont think its healthy for the relationship to keep going back and forth about the SAME THING over and over, especially since we are not accomplishing anything (execpt further arguing) in the process.

Also, there have been other issues too in the relationship and with this going on, i cant help but wonder if we can rekindle what we once had or is this the beginning of the end?? what do you guys think??