Thread: The next level

Hello Ladies!
I need some help! Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years now, we are 20yrs old and he is the love of my life. Our relationship is great, even tho we may only see each other 2 or 3 times a week, its still very strong.

My question is: He's getting an apartment in a few months and he wants me to eventually move in with him. We both work full time jobs and pay for all of our bills minus rent bc we do live at home still, but im just scared of becoming dependent on him. I am starting back with school this fall to get my business degree, which will take me about 6 years, bc i do work full time. So all of my extra money, which isnt much will go into paying for school. He said he wants to pay for all the rent and that i wont have to worry about anything, he just wants me to be with him. Which sounds amazing, but im just scared of the fact that i will solely depend on him to pay for my rent. I've already told him that i will eventually become a burden on him, but he says no bc he loves me too much and that he just wants me to be with him.

I trust my boyfriend very much but this is a very scary step to take in life...i dont doubt our love or the fact that we want to get married, i just dont know what the right choice is!! any other women out there with a similiar experience???

It sounds as if you are not sure. Unless you are 100 percent sure do not make the move. You are right. You need to pursue your education. That is priority. I just think with these mixed feelings it is best to stay put. He will wait until you are ready.