Thread: Is it over?

So I been talking to this guy for about two years. We simply cant manage to get into a solid relationship. There has always been obstacles in the way and distance is a big contributor. I am currently in school and that makes it much harder. He is older and understands that school is my main focus but I know its frustrating. I really want to make it work but it appears that things dont align up for us to be in a relationship. We dont commit to a relationship because it would devastating to break up.
We were recently having this text message conversation and he asked this: "all mine? can you please elaborate" after i text him to "take me, that i was all his." (we were talking dirty so..yeah) I replied to his question "you have me. I am no longer fighting it." He never replied. What does that mean? I have come to the conclusion that that scared him off. Another thing, we were talking dirty, so why did he shift to emotions?


Thanks girls

i think you just need to lay everything out and think about what you want. You say your in school, and that its hard bc of the distance. If there isnt a whole lot of deep feelings, then i say go out and enjoy yourself, meet new people!! If you dont see yourself truly being with this guy in the future, then dont waste your time!! You can still flirt and have fun talking to him, but dont strap yourself if you dont think you will end up with him!!