Thread: in desperate need of answers!!

so.........an update on my situation:

My s.o and I are about to call it quits for good. All i was trying to do was communicate to him my true feelings. He wants to go back to how things used to be. We had been through so much in the past several months, and drifted away from each other as a result. It's gonna take me a while to get back to that point. I want to make it work, but in the back of my mind, i feel like he's gonna condemn me every time i mention a particular issue that i worry about. I also know that when I try to drop everything and just go with the flow, something happens again, causing me to pull back.

Overall I feel like when I tried to hide my feelings (out of fear of sounding paranoid, not wanting to hurt feelings, etc), things were great between us. Now, everything is falling apart and I dont know what to do! he is a good guy and i feel like i would be making a mistake by just calling it quits for good, but if I pretend that everything is great, I would also be lying to myself too.