i need advice
So I have been with this guy for about 5 months now, and all it is, is just sex, and I am seeing now that that is all it will be, and I have been down that road before and it killed me and I don’t want to be there again, so I have decided to end it, I will be graduating college next week and decided that I need to make some changes in life. It’s going to suck to end it because like every fool I keep holding on to the little things that he does that are sweet. But I know that I have to stop before I get too close. I feel like I am always the girl the guy keeps around till something better comes around…I guess I need some advice on being strong, I feel really lost right now, Im tired of being used and always being second best in every relationship in life guys friends everything…I’m at a dead end job that treats me like even thou im the best they have in the district, but I can’t find another job, I have my degree in management and marketing and I have NO IDEA what I want to do with my life, if I even want to be in the business field. I just don’t know where to go from here. And the very little time that I spend with him all that wrong doesn’t matter. Need to break away cause its not good for me its not fair. I don’t know what to do, i dont know if im strong enought to walk away
Like attracts like.
Your intelligent, you have a degree, you have a mind, you can see the writing on the wall, but you need to find the cause.
Your in a job you don't like, you have a degree but don't know what you want out of life, you would like a relationship but as you don't know "who you are", it's difficult to find one, other than what you are attracting. Because, it's like everything else, easy to obtain and easy to just be..
But whilst you live like that, everything seems like it's going no-where because that is the reality.. That is what is happening.
You have to firstly recognise all the good in you, and the smarts..
You then have to work out who you want to be, where you want to be, what type of partner you want.
In that you'll establish that your life outside of work is more than likely boring as well, your not using all that you are.
So, sit down and do some goal setting. Then start planning. Do you want a trip away? How long will it take? How much do you have to save each week and what can you afford?
Do you want walk your dog enough? Would that ground you? If you don't have one, then a hobby?
What jobs are available? Do you look each week in the paper or on the net?
What inspires you? Who? Cut and paste a picture and put it on the mirror.
Are you happy in yourself, your look? Do you need something to brighten you up? A hair cut or colour? Do it.
Why are you attracting them? Because your settling in your life.
Start to change it.
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
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