Hey guys so i started dating my bf who is also my best-friend a year an half ago-before we decided to make out relationship public he told me he was bi-i was fine with it and were together for a year n half....Recently last couple of weeks things have not been so great...
We decided for now that we shouldne be together so as he can explore his identity-as he doesnt know what he wants. but i miss him so much and still love him and now when we do see eachother things are just awkward! Im seeing him again next friday and i really want to tell him how i feel but i dont know how...also id feel bad telling him as i dont want him to feel pressurised to get back with me...
Please help me what shall i do :S!
Hi, well I think you need to tell him exactly how you feel, I don't think that should make him feel like you are placing him under pressure your just talking and communicating which is a key part of a healthy relationship. I am sure you are completely and utterly in love with him, and he loves you too but if he is taking time to "find himself" and who he is I'm sure this doesn't mean you having to live in limbo till he eventually works this out, which when he does, may mean that you are not a part of him and his life.
Talk to him explain exactly how you feel to him, maybe you need to take time also to work out who you are and what you want from him, the relationship and life.
I hope all works out for you both
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