i am so sorry to hear that, that just makes me so mad.My heart go's out for you. He sounds like he is scared of a responsibilitie of being a man or somthing. I agree with WILD CHILD's above comment,
also just try and stay positive and look after yourself.Sounds like you both need to have a good long talk about everything in your life together. Things will get better for you i am sure of it, You are in my thoughts and prayers