He is angry. Please help!

**white ant** · 07-30-2010 02:52 AM

I'm in a long distance relationship and it was going well until my school results came out for last term. I didn't perform very well last quarter and he is taking the blame cuz we were always together. And now he insists that I stay at school full time which is a good thing however it becomes a problem when he doesn't want me to visit him during the week since i have only one course and attending only on saturdays. We argued about it this morning and now he is angry, what should I do? I only need a second chance to prove to myself and him that I can do this. I understand that I got carried away but I have learned my lessson and I'm prepared to work hard. Please help

**jns** · 07-30-2010 06:08 PM

You say the relationship is long distance, how long? You have to learn how to budget time, even though it is hard to do.

**Beautiful Disaster** · 07-30-2010 07:40 PM

IMO, school is way more important than this relationship right now. If HE is the one, he isn't going anywhere. Your free time should be prioritized....school first. Don't waste your time in school if you're not going to apply yourself and learn. Make the best grades you can make. They ARE important contrary to what some believe. My GPA (from undergrad degree 5 years ago) secured me my last job.

School first....fella second. If he loves you, he'll understand.

**white ant** · 08-05-2010 10:54 AM

Thanx guys. We are plus or minus 300km away. I do get what you are saying and I agree however applying it would be so hard since I am so used to waking up beside him. BD you sound just like him you know. He said exactly the same words. Thank you