ok here goes...
my husband of 10 years and I just filed for a simple out of court divorce and in 30 days will be final. he is egyptian and in islam, a husband has to remain with the wife and kids until she is financially able to help herself...well, he owns a and is never home and sleeps out at least once a week. now, his brother rooms in our attic loft as he owns the with him. recently after an abusive argument, his brother came downstairs after my soon to be ex left and comforted me as I cried. That night, we began to make love and now it has become a regular thing. now if my ex found out, he would literally KILL his brother I am afraid and now I think I am pregnant. we didnt have a condom and since it was in the heat of the moment we chose withdrawal in which he went and 'put it back in' afterwards!! according to the calendar, that was my fertile time and now i am scared. I don't want to have an abortion because i have had 3 by my ex hubbo already. (yea, for hi greedy ove of money he would threaten to leave me.) we do have a 4 yr old already and i don't know how i can handle have a child who will be my daughters sibling AND cousin!! i am so stumped and his brother actually is excited!! i was thinking of keeping the baby (if i am pregnant) and telling my ex it's another man's, and keeping this thing a secret.

what to do!?

Holy thats a situation isn't it. Sad to see nobody has replied yet.
I can't offer much advice, except choose the option that presents the least harm to all parties.

Hazanko summed it up. I think all of us out here are going through your scenerio in our heads, thinking "geez, what advice could I offer this poor girl?" It is a sad situation and at this point only time will tell what you can do. Any move you make is not a great choice. I wish you luck and pray that everything works out for you!

I don't know what to tell you. I've been in a relationship with a guy for 11yrs.now. Then out of the blue a old high school friend that i was so in love with contacted me. (26 yrs.later ). We never went out on dates because i was to afraid to ask him out anyway's i called him and he told me that he was in love with me in high school but was afraid to ask me out because i was 2 yrs.older then him, anyway's he got married i got married he's now divorced i'n not married but live with this guy anyway's i,ve seen him off and on since december and i think about him 24-7 and it's making me crazy and we have slept together 4 times since december and i don't know what to do ,my family and my 2 children love the man i'm with. Do i love him well i guess, he was good to my 2 children and me. Any suggestions I need some input pleaseeeeee.

^ It might be more efficient to make a new topic.

Well, I'm sure your family (as in older relatives, mom/dad/sister/etc) could get over a new husband/partner easier than your children. If your happy in your current relationship, then stay there? If he's a good father and theres no issues, I mean... the other guy had his chance. But iunno, maybe the other guy would be a better choice.
Just don't go with the highschool guy just cuz you think it'll turn out great. Hah... boy do people change...

Ty for your input.yeah I know people change. I'm not gonna jump right into it gotta weigh my pro's and con's my kid's are all grown up he has a 10yrd.old son and the guy from high school has MS found out a year ago . I don't know maybe it's hormones but i thought of this guy for 26 yrs. Anyway's ty