Hello mam Time to SCREAM... Because they are exactly that, lost souls, sad, not happy. Why? Simply put they are living in the past, can't stop what ever it is that is making them un-happy, don't believe in themselves, don't believe that they can do it, don't love themselve enough to realise they are worth more, can't move to the present totally...Why do people say that happiness is a choice? I really find that ridiculous. If people can just choose to be happy then why are there so many sad, lost souls in this world? If I hear one more time that I can decide to be happy or stuck in this rut forever, I swear I'm going to scream! Because I don't choose to be unhappy
You've made changes, that's excellent well done.. But, your still living in your past, your dreaming, thinking every waking minute, your living, that's all your doing...
Don't be disappointed in yourself, rather, start reading books of self worth, positive afirmations, and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Yep ( I hate how I am in stuck in this pain)... Only you can get out of it, only you can change it, and you said it ( when I will ever get past it) only you mean, when I can ever remove the past and work for my future.
The changes like I said, is good.. But, it's living... your just living...
You haven't let go, you feel cheated, you feel lost yourself... You haven't closed the door.
Where are those goals? Where is this, pftttt, I deserved better, I deserve better, I love me, watch me go? Where's the positives?