I hate feeling so inncoent

**Carebear2010** · 09-01-2010 03:10 PM

I feel like I'm 18yrs. old in terms of life and sexual experiences though I'm 30. Back then, I was scared of life. venturimg out onto adventures and meeting people. In the last couple yrs. I've learned a lot about life.

I had a fling with someone that I trusted because he "knew" how innocent I was in terms of having sex. I loved it and want more of it. It ended when he knew I wanted more out of the deal, a relationship.

Now, I want sex only when there's a relationship involved. Problem is, I have a hard time getting to know a guy when they know I can't hear well due to hearing loss and don't want some guy taking advatange of me.

**sourpuss** · 09-01-2010 04:44 PM

I've known plenty of people who are completely deaf that lead normal social lives. I even had a friend who was deaf and didn't know sign language who was really social. Is there something else going on that is holding you back from making friends?

**dr.mansview** · 09-01-2010 10:02 PM

if a guy really likes you your hearing loss shouldn't matter to him..at least it wouldn't to me and i'm sure there are tons of guys who feel as i do..
i'm not sure what you mean about a guy taking advantage because of your impairment