Thread: am i crazy?

I'm 24 years old and have been in a relationship for over 2 years now. This is the first real relationship I've had. He was also my "first." I think he may be cheating, or is thinking about cheating on me. He's been more distant lately. Sexually, the last two times I had to push him to have sex, and the 3 times before that, he went soft. I've been blaming myself, saying that it's my fault. I've been stressed with school and the past 2 months we've been arguing a bit more about silly stuff. Prior to this we rarely ever argued. I am on myspace, and the other day I glanced at his profile and read some stuff that indicated there's this girl at work who likes him, and is basically throwing herself at him. I investigated further only to find that her and her friends are "plotting" to take get him to go with her. Could he be arguing with me more to justify is wanting to cheat, and then letting me blame myself? Should I just put my trust in him? We've had a good relationship up until now. And even now, it's not tha bad. Should I confront him? He'd ask why I think that and I'd have to explain that I read some other people's profiles and that would seem kinda creepy. I'm so confused and hurt right now i don't know what to do.

You shouldn't blame yourself. That's just not cool
To me (as a guy) it would seem that it possible he's cheating and or would like to, but I don't think theres and guarentee that he is. I can't really say whether his actions are from cheating or not, as I don't know first hand. I would say do confront him eventually, but make sure you have more evidence than "our sex life sucks, and theres this girl on myspace..." (sorry if that sounds rude).
If you find something that explicitly says that he has done something (say on myspace) then I would say that would be a good time to confront him. But then again, don't wait too long. If you are slipping apart, maybe try and.. I don't know how to say it, but like, make him find you more attractive? Not by wearing skimpy clothes but like maybe do something nice for him, or I once read "plan an activity that reminds the two of you why you got together in the first place."

Oh, and go kick that *****'s ***!!!!! haha