Thread: Problems with Inlaws ( mother in law, Father in Law and now Sis in law)

Hi Friends,

I am married since 8 months now, i am actually in the phase of understanding my husbands charector because mine is a typical Indian arranged marriage where parents decide on our marriage and we get a chance to speak to eachother after the marriage is fixed. i find my husband responsible and he loves me too.. though is he kind of reserved and not too romatic but still he enjoys my company.

My Parent in laws are very cranky and they keep taunting me by saying somthing or the other that i dont prepare food well, or i dont get up ontime etc..i work for a big company and i am in a resposible job..but still i manage both my work and family as i know there will be lot of expectations from me in family also.. but my inlaws are never satisfied and if i tell somthing about the way they behave to my husband he asks me to adjust as they are elders.. i can understand that old people somtimes will not know that the way they are speaking might hurt others but my inlaws are very very sweet to there daughther even thought she acts too harsh with them.

i am not able to express my pain in words but there are lot of things that keeps hurting me, especially the way they all taunt me, and my SIL somtimes talks soo badly to me that i feel soo hurt..my husband supports me against her but he say she is like that only from childhood if you talk more to her its a problem so bear whatever she says. thats really not fare because even i have my self respect.

Now finally i know that all these are common issues in marriage but i want to know th ways to deal with it and move on to be happy... please help