Been Told that he doesnt love me yet i love him... HELP!

**Becca_angel** · 09-20-2010 04:22 AM

ive been with this guy for five months now and yesterday he told me that throught this whole five months that he hasnt really loved me..that he's only liked me a of alot. he says he doesnt know what he wants to do.
. apparantly im too much of a girly girl (even though yeah im daring ect)
. apparantly im insecure about myself (im fine with myself but not when people make nasty remarks)

ive tried saying all this to him and still all i get is i dont know?.

he has told me that he likes this girl that is like him, her name is dani. i dont really like her no. not since she needed a flat mate and so did my boyfriend. i cant move out of home i have my education to complete it would just be so much. so they decided that in 3 months they would share a flat.

all of my friends have said he's not worth the heartbreak..
i love him so much but he doesnt love me
we tried taking a break before and it killed us both, he came crawling back saying he was in love with me then yesterday he says this!

he cant seem to tell me to my face its alwas over text. i dont know what to do.
it would kill me to loose him but at the moment its really heartbreaking
help!

**sourpuss** · 09-20-2010 07:03 AM

I think it would be good for you to venture out and do things by yourself or with friends. I think they are right, he's not worth the heartache at the moment. He's told you how he feels, sort of. Actually, what he is doing is worse than just coming out and saying that he's just not that into the whole thing. He's being a coward about it.
I think you already know the answer, you need to go spend time doing things and being around people that make you happy. At this point, he's not being respectful enough to deserve your company.

**Mes T** · 09-20-2010 08:42 AM

I agree with sourpuss. And come on, he's moving in with a girl he "likes" because she's so similar to him? That'd be tough to handle in even the strongest of relationships. Get out before you've invested any more in him.

**WildChild** · 09-20-2010 09:08 AM

Move on.
You don't want to be the cake he has while he's eating her.

**lala82** · 09-20-2010 10:55 AM

There it is not much you can do. Just accept that everything is over. Try to get busy yourself with studies and friends.
It is a difficult situation. However, I am sure you will find someon, who loves you as you deserve

**Beautiful Disaster** · 09-20-2010 11:08 AM

Move on.
You don't want to be the cake he has while he's eating her.

Exactly. Move on. He's telling you you're not really what he wants. He's telling you he "likes" this other girl. He's telling you he doesn't love you. And you're still there.... for what?