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    Junior Member bambi222 is on a distinguished road
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    I told my boyfriend about 2 guys that had asked me out which I said NO to 3 weeks after it happened. I was even broken up with him the day it happened, I was scared to tell him because we see one of the guys every week and we get along well. I didn't want my boyfriend to fight with him. Does this make me a bad person? , what do i do my boyfriend wants to break up!
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    No that doesn't make you a bad person! He should respect that you were honest with him about and it should show him that you really have nothing to hide by telling him the truth! The down side to telling him is this friend of yours and his that told you how he felt may cause insecurities in your relationship now that you told your boyfriend how he felt towards you! If he is an understanding trusting person than this shouldn't bother him!! Give it time!

    If he wants to break up with you for being honest than you have to consider if its really worth it being together!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by bambi222 View Post
    I told my boyfriend about 2 guys that had asked me out which I said NO to 3 weeks after it happened. I was even broken up with him the day it happened, I was scared to tell him because we see one of the guys every week and we get along well. I didn't want my boyfriend to fight with him. Does this make me a bad person? , what do i do my boyfriend wants to break up!
    Why would you think your boyfriend would fight a guy because he asked you to go out with him? The guy didn't know you were with somebody!


    Your b/f has an insecurity problem.

    If he wants to break up with you, then there's nothing you can do about it. You can't make a person stay with you if they don't want to.
    And DON'T start doing whatever he wants so that he can stay with you, because then he'll really run all over you.

    Have some dignity about yourself and if he calls it quits, then you move on accordingly. YOU DON'T NEED HIM.
    You 2 weren't joined at the hip when you were born, so surely if you've lived your life PRIOR TO him being your b/f, you most certainly can live WITHOUT him.
    Quitters never win; Winners don't give in
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