Thread: Confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1111

I kinda think that if he makes you happy, treats you like you want to be treated, etc....then you already KNOW how he feels, right? You want "more" of him, but a year in the scheme of things isn't very long, and maybe he's not ready to give more. Or, perhaps this is just who he is, and maybe he'll never be ready to give more of himself than what he is right now. That's something to think about.

I think pushing him in any way to be more open to give you more will be detrimental to your relationship. My last BF was constantly telling me he wanted "more" of me. We too had dated for a year. But I was giving him what I felt like I could at that time. His words made me feel like what I was giving wasn't enough, and that put a lot of unneeded pressure on me. We ended up breaking up, and when he looks back on it now, he doesn't really even know what "more" means, because he should've been just fine with the way things were naturally playing out. I think it's just sometimes we always are looking to improve things, to have what we don't have, to make things what we want them to be instead of what they are. So my advice to you is enjoy your relationship, let him be who HE is on his own time. Telling him you want more from him won't make him open up more. But if he's going to, time, trust and patience will.