hello ppl out there

its my first post in here
i need an URGENT advise pleeeeeease ppl !
i need ur suggestions ..
there was this guy who sent me a msg on my fone and actually it was a weird one .. he was like pretending to send msgs to his cousin because he wanted me to pay attention to him and reply him .. so i didnt cos here in our country , usually guys think when a girl gave me a reply once it means that she wants me !!
we got sick minded ppl here ehehe =) here in a gulf arab muslim country , in Kuwait.

well he sent 3 msgs and i ignored him , but then i had to reply him and tell him that hey bro this is the wrong number cos i was kinda scared that my bro or dad r gonna check my mob sometime .. u know what im saying ?! cos here we`re not allowed to have boyfriends or talk to guys infront of our family , we can do that when they dont know like at their back but not infront of them .. !

when i sent this msg he replied me and i ignored him 4 times also ! well i had to reply him that 5th time cos he asked me are u dalal? and dalal is my name so i was kinda shocked !

when i replied i said : yes it is dalal .. and then the conversation started ..

he was like u dont get it girl ive been trying to search for u since a month and a half and i got ur number from this girl who was ur frnd and bla bla bla .. so i kinda believed him cos he knew EVERYTHING about me and he was like i want u ..

the prob now is that i kinda like the guy cos he`s being like : i want u for a serious relationship thats gonna end with us married and being together but not now cos ill graduate from the army on april 2008 so we will have to start this relationship now and get to know each other and who knows maybe we will like each other and get married ..

im starting to like the guy .. and i wont hide this from u ppl out there , that im searching on his back and im asking ppl if there is a guy by his name and the informations that he gave me about him .. so im asking and asking so that i want to know if he`s being honest or not .. !

im just afraid that i accept talking to him and his thinking goes like " shes a down girl .. shes not the girl i cud marry or spend my life with " cos 90% of kuwaiti guys think that the girl that accepted to talk to one guy may have accepted to talk to more than 1 before him so they`ll think that shes a bad grl or whatever
?!


what do u guys think ?
the guy is being so nice and polite and respectful to me .. he wants us to start a relationship thats gonna end with marriage and true love .. shall i go for it or not ? will he think that am a bad grl ?! is it right that im trying to search on his back if the informations about him are true or false ?!



plz people HELP ME !!


THANK U FOR READING ...

You know if this boy was serious, he would be
speaking to your father.
Why is he hiding?
You know why.
He will ruin your reputation.
Firstly, tell him to speak to your father.
Erase all the messages he put on your phone.
Tell him not to call you until after he speaks
to your father.

Too many girls get fooled by boys like this.
He is not right.

oh kaylar plz help .. what makes u think that hes not right .. u dont get it ! he cant go and simply talk to my dad !!! not here in kuwait !!
plus theres one thing u dont know about it , he is in the army from friday night until wednesday morning , so i cant talk to him from friday night - wed morning .. plus he cant take his mobile inside the army college cos if he get caught they will let him stay on wed , thursday and friday so he`ll stay there for the whole week .. i got some info`s about what he said to me about him and they turned out to be right !! so he is not lying !

what do u think ?!

Having a secret relationship is not a good idea.
People will find out....
then you will be in deep trouble.

Your family will never accept him if a relationship
goes on behind their back, and you won't be happy.

yes but ive been in a relationship before and dont worry i can hide this one until we get into a serious commitment as in " marriage
cos thats what he want and what i want also

i guess ill think of that really carefully... u ppl help me please =)