Thread: boy trouble :(

Hey everyone,

So i really need some advice. please help me out if you can.

First of all i just broke up with my boyfriend of three years. We were on and off a hole bunch of times and this time i was just done. There was no more feelings there for him. So i started to move on. There is a guy named justin that i have always had a little crush om. It was never something that interferd with my other relationship becuase we have never gotten that close before. Now that i am single i kinda started talking to him more. He is the BIGGEST sweetheart ever like just amazing. i hung out with him yesterday and a little bit happened but not much we just kissed a little bit here and there, and watched a couple movies. He is just soo sweet the first time we kissed we both said that we were kinda nervous about it becuase we didnt know who should make the move.. but typical man lmao i had too which is compltely fine. Now my ex boyfriend is trying to get involved with all of my personal life and stuff and its driving me crazy. i just want to move on, now with justin like i said amazing guy. he asked me if i wanna to hang out before and now i just dont want to seem creepy. Im still in highschool and i go to school with him and he always gives me hugs and i know thats a good thing. But i feel like im getting a bit of a mixed signal because of my ex and i like him alot i dont want to mess anything up by being creepy. So should i wait for him to text me or whatever orr???? thats what i need help with..
xox steph

If you want to move on, move on. It sucks to be the one broken up with, no matter if your ex-partner is seeing someone else or not (though, it is decidedly more painful if they are). If you are over this guy and he does more harm than good in your life, then nix him. It will eventually hurt the relationship with Justin. Though the above poster has a good point... is your now ex friends with Justin? That is a whole other story if so...