Thread: Fun Buddies

So, the dreaded F-buddy. I'll call them fun buddies, just for the heck of it.

I've got a couple conflicting ideas here, and just figured I'd vent them to get some other opinions.

I've never had a fun buddy before. Ever. And if I did, it would kinda be like a relationship, simply because I don't really want to be the sort of person that sleeps around. I just would know from the beginning the "relationship" is going no where, so I won't dare to get my hopes up. Personally, I like the idea.

I've been single for a couple months now. I'm a very, very sexual person. It doesn't have to do with "making love", and almost has everything to do with getting down and dirty.

Heart wise, I'm still attached to my ex. I've dated, dated, and dated. I could pick Brad Pitt apart in one date and convince myself I want nothing to do with him, that's how much my heart is still attached to my ex. I don't see it changing anytime soon. I'm also in a situation where I see my ex everyday, and will for at least another 6-8 months. Things are good between us, we're fun and flirty, and everyone swears he wants me back (but I know him -- he goes after what he wants without hesitation, and he would've brought "us" up already).

Some of my girlfriends want me to take -him- in as a fun buddy, which, I'm sure I could do, but in a way it feels like if I do that, he'll never want me for a serious relationship? (The ole why-buy-the-cow thing).

Also, if you've ever had one, would you suggest someone who is already a friend, or some random? (Although, I have a problem getting down with a random person..)