Have you ever suddenly started to feel attracted to someone who you didn't ...
OK, so there's this guy that has been a part of my circle of friends for sometime now. I never thought of him as someone special for me. But suddenly at a party last week I felt like I wanted to be where he was, I wanted to be with him. I don't understand why I am feeling this way and don't necessarily want to feel this way. There seems to be a shift in him too. What is going on here? I feel like I want to run away and hide..but there will be a big social event this weekend that we will both be at.
I suppose I will just keep the focus on me and in the moment...YIKES!! maybe the whole thing will blow over by this weekend!!
Do you feel like he's a good catch? Are you sexually attracted to him too? If so, then why would you want to NOT like him? What you have to be careful of when you're single is loneliness can play tricks on the mind. Do you really like this guy? Can you see yourself with him?
"Be what you're looking for."
"The next time you're thinking of kicking someone when they're down, offer them your hand and help them back up instead."
For one thing while I may be single, I am not lonely... he is a good man, a solid man. I suppose I do feel attracted to him but I just had not planned on it. The reason I have posted this here is because I don't understand what is going on with me in regard to this guy. I had always thought of him as someone that I respect and like a great deal but not my type...Have you ever been taken by surprise by your feelings for someone??? If so what happened??
Alot of people are friends first...There is no chemistry at all, not their type, but they like the persons mind, or personality, or both....
But, like meeting anyone, as you get to know someone, the more you know about them and the more you like about them as a person and one day, you see them in a different light....
They are the best potentional relationships, because there weren't born from chemistry alone....rather two people who have gotten to know each other and all of a sudden like the inner selves of each other and find each other attractive on all levels.........
Go with your feelings, thoughts and don't stress on it......
CW
Do we not realise that in order to find a soul
It doesn't happen over night
if truth were to be told.
Like everything in life that's hard to achieve
you must believe!
Good.For one thing while I may be single, I am not lonely
Sometimes our "type" can be overridden by a more intense more genuine chemistry. I think it's great. He sounds like a good guy, and you sound like a good gal.....so perhaps you should just go with the flow and see what happens?I had always thought of him as someone that I respect and like a great deal but not my type
"Be what you're looking for."
"The next time you're thinking of kicking someone when they're down, offer them your hand and help them back up instead."
Sounds to me like the relationship has been warming up very slowly over time, finally ignited, and now you realize, "Hey, I might like him as more than just a friend." It happens. Not all relationships have to start off with immediate chemistry, and I do think that romances based on longer friendships have a good chance of lasting because they are built on such a solid foundation.
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