Thread: I am afraid

How old are you? Your hymen can break without you even realizing it... from things like riding a bike or from fingering or inserting a tampon. It's nothing to be scared of and generally doesn't even hurt. If you are scared, it will cause your body to tense up and sex can be uncomfortable or painful. You need to be able to relax and just enjoy the experience. For your first time, he needs to be very patient with you and listen to you. Lots of foreplay to get aroused, then move onto manual stimulation with gentle fingering, and maybe some oral if you're ok with that. You don't even have to have penetrative sex at all to please each other, you can work up to that until you are ready and comfortable. Communicate with him, make sure you trust him to go slow and be patient with you because it is your first time. When the time comes, make sure you are very aroused and wet, and he goes slowly. It should not hurt at all if you are aroused enough and relaxed. If it does hurt, tell him to slow down or stop and try something else. Don't be afraid, it is an enjoyable experience once you get past that initial first hurdle and built up some experience.

Originally Posted by wanton

I do not know how my hymen will be broken. While I fantasize about making love I never stop from worrying how my boy friend will act sexually on me. I am a virgin and never sexed and I wonder how my boyfriend's will pain me and my vagina will be bleeding.

It is OK if he will do it steadily and when he will be wild like an untamed brute in the act of sex I will be injured badly. I always worry about it . I just want to hear about your first experience with your boy friend and how his penis stroke you when you had your first sex

Age and Maturit and Love will help you Lose your Fears.

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