Thread: Signs he's not into you anymore?

If a guy isn't interested anymore... he'll usually withdraw. He'll make less time for you... no matter how busy a guy is, if he is into you - he'll find the time to see you. When a guy is into you, he WANTS to hear from you and talk to you, if he isn't picking up/returning calls... isn't inniciating them -- he's probably not interested. Men tend to go after what they want, he'll put in effort when its worth it to him -- if he's not putting in any, he's probably not all that interested.

Real men like to take care of the woman they love, and no, I don't mean financially... but they want to make sure you feel good, that you are comfortable, warm, fed, safe... a man that is using you won't care about any of those things -- he won't see past his own wants and "needs". A man that is using you will expect things from you, not appreciate you and not reciprocate the same things they expect.

There are no 'methods' to make someone interested if they aren't. People gravitate to what they are attracted to, to what they find interesting/fun, and what they relate to or are wanting to relate to... and thats different for everyone.

As far as what men like, thats going to vary guy to guy... some guys LOVE the games, they LOVE the chase and aren't interested in anything that comes easy -- those are the guys you want to avoid, seriously. If you have to pretend you don't like a guy in order to get his attention, he has issues... and will be in constant seek of some new challenge once he finally has you anyway. Good guys, genuine guys... want you to be real, to be yourself, to not play games.