Thread: i don't whether he still love me......

i am having relationship with a guy for bout 5 months...in the begining he seems care bout me but recently he have less topic to talk...whenever we going out for dinner ..he alwys online with his phone..we jz met oonce in a week...moslty will message or msn...but whne we see each other we hav less things to say...he nvr hold my hand in public...but we did kiss in his room n he wan sex from me sometime...our relationship is a total secret ..none of his fren know that we r togheter...he nvr ask me join his fren party...r all this sign showing that he dont love me.....sometime i feel like he is jz using me to cover his bored......i still love him but i duno wat he is thinking..

He sounds shady in my book. The fact that you are a secret from his friends is a clear signal he's not serious about the relationship (if even it's existent in his mind). If I were you, stop going out with him, no more sex with him unless he tells you himself he wants to be exclusive and makes your relationship public ( unless of course you prefer otherwise, which will just end up hurting you more later).

Don't devote your time second guessing yourself. I'd say move on, you deserve someone better.