Thread: Ok so now what?

I would say to turn him down. You don't just want to be a booty call in the middle of the night. Flirting and suggestions are fun but in my opinion you should definitely wait until you've got some sort of stable relationship before taking the big step to sex.

Flirt back, make him want you and make him want to be with you in that subtle way that we women are so skilled at, but don't give in.

I'm not sure that flirting back is the best idea.... Definitely don't want to be a friend with benefits either.... If this guy has low self-esteem then he was probably flirting with you in an effort to make himself feel better, if only for a moment. Flirting back fuels that fire in addition it tells him that you still want him.

Unless you do, draw a clear line in the sand and be done with it. I would suggest not answering his texts late at night, instead just go to sleep and catch up with him in the morning. How many other "friends" text you late at night? How many other "friends" text you suggestive things? Playing this game with him makes him think that there is still something there.

He broke up, it's over, it's done. Remain friends if you want, but don't lead him on by participating in his game playing.

Hi both, thanks for your replies. I know you are right, definately no to friends with benefits I do still have feelings for him though and I would like to give our relationship another go. I have really missed him today and been thinking about him all day

Just confused now, I had drawn a line under us and put my feelings away, now they are back...great