Thread: Left all alone-Please help

I have small sweet family my mom, two sisters(one married, one yet to get married in 10days) and me(unmarried). My mom has been a single parent since my dad’s death 10yrs ago. We have our so called relatives who instead of helping us are troubling us to the core. My 2nd sister is getting married and my cousin(mom’s sister’s son) who is like a brother for us is troubling us to the core. There had been a sensitive issue with my 2nd sis regarding her past relationship where nothing much happened and they broke up 2yrs back. (because her ex had a wife and a kid. Which my sis later came to know and broke up 2yrs back).

Now that my sister is getting married, my cousin is threatening us that he will tell about her past relationship to her in laws and stop the marriage. He has already spread the matter to all my family members.

Due to some misunderstandings my psycho cousin’s wife (sis in law) left him and ran away. Which I wonder why my cousin assumes that my sis is responsible for separating them as cousins wife and my sis were very good friends once upon a time. He thinks because of my sis he is away from his wife. His wife and he were and are a curse to each other (everyone knows). Always they use to fight and get separated. I have no idea why this guy is behind my sis that she is responsible. My 2nd sis’s in laws are orthodox people, my sis is worried if the marriage stops. . It’s her wedding which happens once in lifetime and she is not peaceful. We have never done anything wrong to anyone. We know how much my mom (being a single parent) is struggling to educate us and get us married in safe hands. These impotents instead of supporting us are troubling us. What to do? He keeps threatening us that he will come to my sister’s office and create havoc. and sometimes he messages vulgarly saying he will kill us. We don't have any support and he knows it. He is completely taking us for granted. I suppose he has mental problems. He is jobless. He is an insult to the manhood. His mother and sister who are a great support to his all bad sins are a great wastage on this earth. His sister and mother had come to our home, created a havoc and went. We broke our relationship with all my dirty useless relatives. Now I really don’t know for what is he threatening? We haven’t done anything. Nor my sis has done anything to get scared. He abuses my mom, and us very badly.

We have fought with all the relatives and got separated from them. They hate us don’t know for what. This story is even bigger than I have stated here. I am worried if any of my family members check this and gets even wilder.

Personally also I have been suffering a lot with my love life. Lost the love of my life. In family also such a big s*it happening. Just fed up of life and feels to go away somewhere far from family, love, friends. Just fed up of life. Meanwhile I am just going on losing weight, hair loss, skin problems. Though whatever happens, I get proper sleep and food. Just getting very angry with my relatives, feels to give back whatever bad they are giving us. But again I know the more we react, the more they get provoked and may do more wrong to us. Don't want to go under depression. I feel that i need my love to support me in this but he is least bothered. Not knowing what to do. i am posting here.