I have this friend i have been friends with since high school we graduated 5 years ago. This friend Kate became friends with another girl named Cass our last year and she began spending all her time with her and I felt left out and betrayed.

Kate went away to university and then me and Cass (in grade 12 still) became good friends at first there was a lot drama between us saying Cass was only friends with me to get back at her and she only wanted to use me to do things.

I decided to see past it all and tell Kate she couldn't tell me who to be friends with. I guess Cass figured out she actually liked me and we had common interests along the way though. I did feel used as I was forced to help her forge a transcript, get back at kate, said negative things about me to kate before she even knew me, wouldnt let me hang out with them, she went after a guy i liked and he told me she told him i was crazy/obsessive about him as she got me to ask him information and then he deleted me evrywhere he told me this, tried to turn me against kate, always canceling plans sometime not informing me causing me to lose shifts, didn't really make an effort only when she needed something, always put herself first, never comforted me when i was getting over my ex only when i complained about him.

I didn't know what to do for awhile because i was good friends with both and one said the opposite of the other.

I noticed in january when she moved away she started being friends with a new girl and they were getting married on fb, writing on each others wall 20s times a day saying stupid inside jokes acting like they were each other soulmates they only met in nov they already went to the us, cuba and did everything together, she never had time for her but always for her...i wasnt jealous that she had a new friend just that she replaced me and made no effort for me.

I told her we needed a break as she had things she needed to think over it took her 2 months to appologize to me and i told her there are some issues that need to be resolved first so i e-mailed her and told her to contact me when she was ready. She never even contacted me she just ignored me and i had to contact her to see if she got my email and she said she decided otherwise i dont think you want me to be your friend. you are mad over things i never did.

I told her i need to be able to trust someone and sometime people make mistakes but admiting your wrongs and moving is a big part but it just shows me that you dont care and arent willing to show me u changed we would have needed to see if we could talk things out and come to an understanding.

she couldn't even reply to that I feel betrayed and i just need some advise.