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    There is this girl I have been talking to online lately, and I love chatting with her. We have alot in common and am dying to meet her (we live in the same town). I have been chatting with her for about a week now and she seems interested in me, but hasn't really made the effort to want to meet. I asked her out for coffee a few times and she has always agreed but we never really set anything up officially. Just today, I asked her again if she wanted to go out and get something to eat and she seemed up for it, but she told me she will have to wait a bit. Now she is gone offline and I don't think we will be going out anymore. Maybe tomorrow.... Hopefully.

    It sounds like she doesn't want to meet me, but she has never said that though. I really like her but I don't want to say or rush anything because then I'll probably come off as some crazy stalker person and she will just ignore me all together.

    How can I let her know that I'm interested without really saying so? Is there any ways? I don't know what it is, but I feel really bad inside. I really like this girl, and I will be devestaded if we never meet and she just becomes completely out of my life.

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    Do you flirt online with her? Do you joke with her? She could be a little scared of the situation because she may think you are pushing it too hard. Work on making her comfortable and show how you are a good guy.
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    You might casually let her know when you are going someplace "safe" with friends. Meeting for coffee at 10 or visiting the zoo tomorrow. That will let her know you are getting out and doing things and who knows maybe at some point she may say that she is going to be in area at the same time.
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