Thread: my boyfriend lied and hurt me but i feel guilty.

well, i was with this boy for a month and the reason we got together is because my bestfriend who is like a sister too me is his bestfriend aswel, and she said too me that he has feelings for me and that he talks about me too her all the time! This made me believe i could have a chance with him so a week later i asked him out and he said YES! i was so happy! we were together for a month then came a thursday i was off ill and some people in my school got caught for stupidly smoking and he was one of them. On the friday i came into school too find out because me and him were out i got dragged into it and i apparently smoke just because me and him were together? but i waited till school ended and i went up too him and said look iv been dragged into it because you and me are together and he said rightnwe have to end and i started crying and said no please i cant loose you and then he said well we have too pretend then so i said okay and we kissed goodbye and that weekend i knew he was annoyed with me.. on that friday, i stayed at my bestmates and she has been out with him before and she told me he told her on that friday that he misses their memories and when he's with me they come back and i couldnt stop crying and on the saturday she told me he is only out with me too get his ex (my mate) jealous and he is using me too toss him off and stuff but my friend said not to drag her into it because she dont want too loose a friendship with him.
on the sunday i said to this boy, iv been told some rumours that you are using me but i know its lies and then he asked who said it and i said i cant say because i promised then he got into a reaaaaaally bad mood with me and said i should off and we were just arguing then he said i cba with this anymore! and i said what do you mean and he said GUESS i just cant deal with the lies and i said so were over then and i burst out crying and he said i never liked you at all in the first place tbh i done a favour for someone but now i do like you a little bit...

i want him back but i cant ruin mine and hers friendship just too get him back and i just feel guilty and that im stuck in the middle of it what do i do?:/ xxx

I am sorry you are having problems.

This is just the beginning or Relationship Building and Learning for you.

You sound young and eager to start having " Friends " and " More serious friendships". Learning to Value true friendships and Learning that some people are just not a True Friend.

A Good Rule at your age is to put more effort into your schooling and future Dreams and Plans, than into boyfriends/ girlfriends.
Focus on being a Great Person, Great Family member, Great Friend. ..And know that this Boy is not the last Boy, that will like you.

Associate yourself with people who do Not get in Trouble, Do Not break the Rules of a School or the Law.
And until you have your own Goals straight and on that road to success, Don't date your Best Friends best friend or their brother ..