Well basically im continuing from my last post "I know it was wrong but i did it anyway". I was dating the married man. And i broke it off with him. I really dont want anything else to do with him. He still tries to communicate with me but its when he has time to or when he's not around his wife.

I hated knowing the fact that he could be with me one minute and with his wife in bed with her making love to her the next minute. I want him to feel how i feel. I want him to feel my pain so i came up with a plan. I know it will sound childish but two can play his game.

I am going to lead him on like i want to still be with him. Like it doesnt matter that he has a wife and doesnt plan on leaving her. LIke im okay with everything and he can come and be with me whenever he feel its convient.
The Game
So when he calls to come and see me i will telll him that me and my baby daddy are trying to work things out because he wants to do right by me and the baby now so he is going to come and get us and we are going to be going to stay with him for a little while like two weeks. (my baby daddy lives in mississippi and i moved back to st. louis). What do you think of the plan?

The reason i want to do this is because i dont want him to think im just sitting around and waiting on him. I want it to look like someone else wants me. Yeah, i know its games but sometimes we have to do this to men. He thinks he has me hooked and i have to show him other wise. He called me the other night and asked me have i been messing with anyone else besides him and to wait on him. This will show him that im not waiting on him and while he thinks im out of town he will be wondering what me and my babys father is doing the same things i think when i know he is at home with his wife (by the way they dont have kids together).

So ladies what do you think? Men know when they have a woman hooked and i just want to show him that he isnt the only fish in the sea.

Playing with someone's emotions is never a good idea. You can never predict what they might do; they may even get violent. If you really want to get back at him, just go on with your life - be successful, be healthy, be happy. Without him.

He's not worth another moment of your time or effort.

Yogurl, you are wise enough to get out of the relationship
with this Married Man, but he's still controlling you.

That he feels he can call you up and ask you if you're
'messing around' with another man makes me want to
puke.

You can't play any game with this guy because he
knows you, and will laugh at your stories.

He knows you're alone, it must give him great
sexual pleasure because it's such an ego boost.

You have to sever all ties with him to the extent
he runs when he sees you.

the point is, you have to tell him, maybe at work
in front of other people...

"Listen to me, George, I want you to leave me
alone. I will call your wife and tell her how you've
been running behind me. I don't want you George."

That would end the relationship.

But you don't do that...you keep his secret.
This proves to him that you're just playing
'hard to get'.