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The first thing you need to understand is that being bisexual doesn't make someone any more OR any less likely to cheat than a heterosexual guy. Heterosexual guys like women. When they begin a relationship with a woman, they don't stop being attracted to women... they still are, they just focus their attraction on the one they are with. When a bisexual person commits, same thing... they don't lose their attraction to either sex, but focus' on the one they are with.
If he were straight, and making flirty wall posts at other GIRLS... would you be tolerant of that? Probably not. Just because he is bi doesn't make it okay for him to publically hit on guys -- even if he doesn't cheat on you with him. The respect for your relationship needs to be defined by both of you. Don't think that he deserves special exceptions you wouldn't give a straight bf.
Say you were ith a guy that liked blondes a lot and you were a brunette, but he wanted you to be his gf... you wouldn't say, ahh its okay if he says flirty things to blondes... because I'm not a blonde... so he should be allowed to persue blondes as long as he doesn't cheat, afterall -- he is attracted to them.
No, you wouldn't be cool with that... so you shouldn't be cool with him doing that with guys. Define your respect bounderies together.. what is and isn't okay for either of you -- no matter if its directed at males or females. Explain how it makes you feel, and see if he is on the same page with you.
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