Thread: husband problems

i was married for 20 years and i am always having problems with women and my husband. I am so fustrated , that i just do not know what i should do. I always confront him on whatever i found and he would tell me that i am stupid and he would not cheat on me.1. 18 years ago i found a woman on the fireescape 2. people called me and told me he is seeing other women 3. women will call and hang up on me when i answer the phone 4. he will be on the phone for hours 5. Facebook he would be adding only women, which he claims he do not know 6. he is a plumber so he would be on call i do not trust him until i feel that he with another woman. I do not know if i am the wrong one because i would argue about all these things, and he makes me feel that i am just quarrelling for no reason. Recently there was an incident where he met an old school friend after 25 years, so it was her birthday , he went , it was 3 hours away, he never called to say he reached ,i tried calling he never answer and came back the other morning at 9a.m. there is so much , that i just do not know what to do . But i really do not trust him and he is not trying to help me to. He would say he dont care what people think.I saw alot of conversations with this person on facebook and one was she know that he likes the attention from her. When i confronted her on facebook she said she do not care how i feel because that is her good friend and it will continue to be that way. He is someone who will make sure we have everything in the house. I have deleted his facebook he even open one secretly just to talk to this same person. I am threatening him to delete all those random women, he told me he is going to reopen one where i would not have any access.I believe he wants to be with these women and i just have to live with it.