Thread: Advice on finding someone

Thanks for the advice i think these all are valid points i'll just have to take it away and work on it!

Originally Posted by Seeker_Advice

If I woke up in your shoes and was interested in finding a partner, I'd start to take notice of the people around you that are doing activities that you like to do.

I think this is most valid to my position cause to be honest i take part in a lot of activities where i meet new, and there are chances to regularly interact which i do, depending on how i feel. But there are a lot of people i know already, which i don't really know well, so maybe start there? who knows...

Originally Posted by spurzzz

My advice would be to get to know someone first as you are but don't delay the initiation if you are starting to like them. Try to always be a little flirty so as not to get into the 'friends forever' stage and keep the candle lit. Be spontaneous and keep the interest going and let it be know through your actions and your words you are interested.

This is probably something i would have trouble with, but i think this would also help a lot. Thanks

Hi mate. Try to get yourself out where women/girls are enjoying themselves.Parties/sport/events etc etc. Enjoy yourself too in their company. Whatever you do, do not make it obvious you want a relationship. This is a no-no. Just be friends and you will see who you get on with best. The closest girl to you may not necessarily be the most attractive to start with, but you will see that she has a natural attractiveness that you admire/like/enjoy. best of luck.