Ok so long story short, my boyfriend has done some shady things since we've been together. I've been thrown on the back burner so he can enjoy the club and pretty much do whatever he wanted while I just sat home and cried. I thought we would break up etc etc...well eventually I got fed up. Since he stopped paying attention to me, I stopped paying attention to him. I met some other guy, ended up cheating, and feeling low. I did feel really guilty and I came clean to my boyfriend. I got really lucky and he decided we should put all of this behind us and move on.

What a breath of fresh air!! We've been spending a lot of time together again, and I'm loving every minute! He's definitely my closest friend. I call him when I need to vent, and when we come home, we tell each other about our day, discuss things that need to be done and paid, and act like complete fools.

So I've been thinking that since he and I basically rushed into this relationship, we didn't have time to be friends. We were together after 2 weeks of dating, and we said "I love you" 2 weeks after getting together. People thought we were crazy but we've made it so far. I think it's absolutely wonderful we weren't friends first, because it would have complicated things (or so it seems from my past relationships). So am I the only one that enjoys becoming best friends with someone I'm with? We were best friends before all the lies we told each other. I'm excited that we've progressed back to this point.

He's also been talking marriage a lot lately not expecting a ring but no complaints if he proposes!

I just wanted to post this to tell everyone that you can work through anything as long as you both still love each other. Our trust was broken for a little while but we gained it back. I truly believe there is a someone for everyone. Don't give up!! Love is a beautiful, beautiful thing if you cherish it and treat it right! Take no precious moments for granted!