Um unless he is on a pay porn site sending him these pics at 99 cents a text... there is 0 likelihood that she is doing it without encouragement, compliments, some sort of communication. Seriously? How simple does he think you are? You are a woman after all, you know how women think... I take dirty pics for my man from time to time but I dang sure wouldn't send them if we were broken up, I dang sure wouldn't send them, hear NOTHING from him, then proceed to keep sending....
Girls send them for rewards, be it attention, ego-boost "you are so sexy honey!!" or to surprise the man they love... they don't willy nilly send them to guys that aren't talking to them. They just don't.
He doesn't have to change his number, he's baiting you with that... so that you won't ask him to, so that he can make YOU feel like the controlling crazy gf for making him have to get a whole new number when all he has to do is TRULY stop communicating with this woman or simply tell her he isn't interested in persuing their textual relationship :P
Don't move in with this guy, at least not at this time... or you are in for more of this, not less of this... because people will only treat you as bad as you let them, and if you make yourself an emotional doormat, they will dance on it. Stick up for your respect from him and his respect for this relationship.
Scars remind us of where we've been...they don't have to dictate where we're going.
Ditto to above posters. Do not move in together unless there is commitment from him that you are his one and only, that he will devote his time, love, energy and all only to you. Looks like he's not doing it. Whatever he tells you, go by what he does - Action speaks louder than words.
What counts in making a happy marriage is not so much how compatible you are but how you deal with incompatibility. - Leo Tolstoy
The clearest explanation for failure of any marriage is that two people are incompatible; that is, one is male and the other female. - Anna Quindlen
Register! | Rules/FAQ |Contact Mod| Contact Admin
I stumbled upon this thread and it has me fuming.
Please don't fall for this whole act of "Oh it's her, don't be mad at me." Yeah freaking right. What kind of girl sends a man pics over and over if he's unresponsive or is saying no? Do these girls exist that aren't staring in porn and don't care about who gets a hold of their pics?
Seriously, if the situation was reversed and he found pics of someone you were seeing on your phone STILL BEING SENT REGULARLY, would he be okay when you say "Oh I can't help it, he'll stop eventually?" If he isn't okay with that, there's a double standard and he can't be trusted. If he is okay with that, then he's not that serious about this relationship at all.
Please don't decide to move in with him until he shapes up. And I hope you don't think moving in with him would allow you to keep an eye on him 24/7 and fix the issue. Bc it won't work that way.
In the end, the king and the pawn both go into the same box.
Posting Permissions
LinkBack URL
About LinkBacks
Reply With Quote
Bookmarks