Thread: Reconnecting

So im going through a divorce ( it will be final Sept. 23), and when i changed my status to separated on facebook, i had 2 old high school friends (guys) send me messages stating that they would love to hang out with me and catch up. One of them had a huge crush on me in highschool (he told me that about 2 years ago), but i never had feelings for him in that way, and the other has always just been a friend. I dont really know what to do at this point... Im not even thinking about dating ANYTIME soon, but it would be nice to go out just as JUST friends with someone or a group.

I dont really know if either of these guys are thinking of "hanging out" as a date, but i surely dont want to them to think that. I dont want to hurt any feelings, or give out mixed signals. I just need advise and opinions on what to do next. How do I answer them? They have both asked when I can hang out. I told them both that I was very busy, and things should slow down soon. One did not respond yet, and the other said that he hopes I can make time for him since he does not live far away....HELP!!