Friendship Falling Apart

**lizzardb63** · 07-08-2011 07:32 AM

She is just rude to me when her friend is around and I've actually tried and have involved her friend in mutual things to do (I've had them both over for a girls night sleep over why my boyfriend was out of town)...I really think I've made an effort. I feel like I'm turning into the bad person here...I am not playing the blame game, I just don't know if I should hang on or let go. When do you know when to just surrender?

**Beautiful Disaster** · 07-08-2011 07:52 AM

I feel like I'm turning into the bad person here...I am not playing the blame game, I just don't know if I should hang on or let go

I think you do know. Letting go isn't always easy, but it can be incredibly empowering when you are letting go of something that is bringing you down and causing you negativity.

You are the only thing holding that relationship together. Otherwise, there is no real friendship here. Let her go. You don't have to say "I don't want to be your friend anymore" but stop calling, stop answering when she calls, find other things in your life and then down the road if she REALLY wants to be a friend to you, then let HER show you that.