What kind of man talks quite a bit about sex and sexual things?

**Seniora** · 07-29-2011 10:18 AM

I know a fellow who keeps putting sex into a lot of discussions - even things which don't directly relate to sex. What do you think this suggests about this, otherwise fairly intelligent, individual - who HAS a partner??

**BabyGirl** · 07-29-2011 02:54 PM

Is your concern that he is talking Directly to you ? Does he talk this way in front of others, mixed crowd, Office situation ?

Do you possibly think a word is also a " sexual" innuendo ?

We have a Group Coordinator for a Community Service center in our Complex, that just today announced that BINGO night would be for all Tenants, but the Children's Bingo would be in an Adjoining Room, Because there were " Jokes or References to the I- 69 call on the Bingo card.

The Parents / Adults laughed and Joked about what it " Represented to them "

Some kids in the Teens Snickered and Thought , Sexual " Eat at the hot dog stand , Don't hold the Mayo " With the "giggles of young upcoming Adults/ Teens "

Others were just laughing because someone else laughed. Then back to calling the B-53.. That's a Bomber from the WW2, and though it is HISTORY, it evolves to a Discussion on what B-53 means,who takes B-Vitamins and who has a 5.3 B200 Engine on and on.

Everyone Wins !!

In the point that knowledge is or can be " Sexual ".

So if you are Uncomfortable with certain words and the Meanings, Google the Other Meanings, Print them out, Give them to Your Friend in a Nice envelope, In front of others, so it does NOT seem Sexual by you.

Just possibly He may realize what he is saying, even in Habit or Jokes and realize that Everyone takes words differently. When I was Young the 69, did make me think Sex, now it makes me think ..

1969, 10 years old.
But this is 2011, so how can I turn down a 69 Chevy that needs restored ? My idea now is 69 means I hopefully will live to 69. Then again. I do think still , in a sexual way..

That Head Jobs, can be meant as CAR HEADS being resurfaced. That Blow Jobs, can mean that you need your Heater Core and Radiator flushed out and all Vacuum hoses.

I purchased a Bra for my 24 year old son. It needs adjusting and he doesn't know how to put it on Correctly. It was for his Camaro.

Yep a bra for a car. They ( at work ) laughed, Giggled and teased to the Hilt when he came in to pick it up. He then said the " Straps" might not fit, looked the Biggest Guy ( my Co worker ) in the Eye and asked him, How to Strap on a Big Bra ??
That Co~ Worker helped my Son Put on His New Bra.. Lol
But a bit Crooked as it needs Adjustment on the Velcro parts .. * Sigh *

So as I am saying.. What is Sexual about your Friends Speaking ? Do You think it is Sexual or is it an Interpretation of a word used long ago . that now has a different Meaning ?

**CHANDLERS WISH** · 07-29-2011 04:19 PM

To me, I would suspect that he's not a faithful partner... His thought pattern is all about sexuality, and if that turns someone on then he'd be happy to comply.

I also have met men like this and personally I find them grose, opinionated, self centred and a womaniser

**Seniora** · 07-30-2011 06:31 AM

Originally Posted by CHANDLERS WISH

To me, I would suspect that he's not a faithful partner... His thought pattern is all about sexuality, and if that turns someone on then he'd be happy to comply.

I also have met men like this and personally I find them grose, opinionated, self centred and a womaniser

Thanks, CW. No, it's on an internet forum about culture and he constantly refers to sex. Not in an overly "smutty" way. For example, words and phrases he uses involve masturbation (nicely put however), wet dreams, the sexual act, thinking sexually about books and films - sex in music/rape etc. - (occasionally). I just find it odd that in intelligent discussion this recurs over and over again. Any thoughts? Who could it harm on the internet? I'm just intrigued by the thought processes of these types.

**Seniora** · 07-30-2011 09:03 AM

POST SCRIPT: With regard to my previous comments - the man in question never speaks this way to me; it's something he does more publicly. I get the feeling he's trying to prove a point; all the same, its bizarre. I once suggested on the forum, "those who can, do; those who can't talk about it"! Perhaps there's some truth to this, do you think?

**jns** · 07-30-2011 11:03 AM

Originally Posted by Seniora

POST SCRIPT: With regard to my previous comments - the man in question never speaks this way to me; it's something he does more publicly. I get the feeling he's trying to prove a point; all the same, its bizarre. I once suggested on the forum, "those who can, do; those who can't talk about it"! Perhaps there's some truth to this, do you think?

He is probably insecure about his own sexuality or he likes creating controversy or he has limited vocabulary among other possibilities.