Ex, and pregnancy? Please advice..

**missunshiine** · 08-31-2011 08:51 PM

Okay....im pretty smart with the whole getting pregnant situation but in my situation i dont know whats going on....

I been having un protected sex for 4months now...ive gotten regular periods...So i want to know what can be wrong?...Im with him every week for atleast 4 to 5 days every week and we constantly have unprotected sex and he doesnt pull out...so now im stuck in another situation...We no longer are together and its almost been a month and ive gotten my period again...is there a chance i can probably get pregnant later on? I need someones advice.

**Elanor-Jane** · 08-31-2011 10:24 PM

he could have been sterile or just not enough count, you could have hostile vaginal mucus that is inhibiting safe travel of sperm, could just be bad timing. if your periods are fine and u havent had polysistic ovaries it was probably just bad luck. if your that concerned go to the Dr. my ex and i couldnt fall and the doctor told him (after we broke up, yeah thanks Glen) that he was drinking too much water, due to drinking too much alcohol and becoming dehydrated. so there are lots of reasons that are easily fixed

if u mean u are worried about becoming pregnant to this guy that u arnt with, it wont happen unless u continue what u were doing before. youve had your period the egg has shed.

im sure your fine. it takes some people years to have a baby. so much to take into consideration

**missunshiine** · 09-02-2011 08:04 PM

thankyou for ur advice!

**SomiticPit** · 09-12-2011 08:20 PM

So from what I read it seems you might be worried about being infertile. I will tell you two situations of mine that may help ease your worries. (Now, I understand that each woman is different and each man is different, so each circumstance is unique...but to continue on in my attempts to help lessen your anxieties...)

I was with a guy once for eight whole months before I got pregnant. We had sex just about everyday, three times a day. (We were young!) He never pulled out, we never used protection. Eight months...

I was with another man and ended up pregnant after having sex with him just a few times, not everyday! And he he pulled out! (Or so I thought...)

The man I am with now, well, we had unprotected sex almost everyday (maybe 6 days out of the week) and he ALWAYS came inside of me. It took 6 whole months for me to become pregnant.

There could be many reasons why sometimes it happens quicker than others. Chances seem to suggest that I would've gotten pregnant much faster with the two men who I had daily sex with, unprotected. But instead, I ended up pregnant with the guy who "pulled out", and only after having sex with him just a few times.

**SomiticPit** · 09-12-2011 08:28 PM

I said I was going to tell you two situations but I told you three....lol I guess I can't count. Are you trying to get pregnant? Have you been to the doctor and had any pap smears that came back abnormal? It could also be medications you may be taking, medications HE may be taking...or it could also be the use of illegal drugs in either of your systems (just a suggestion, not an accusation!) I'm trying to think of possibilities that could contribute to why it might be making it difficult for you.

With the first guy, where it took 8 months to get pregnant, I was on drugs pretty heavily.
With the second guy, where it took just a few times to get pregnant, I was pretty much clean besides drinking occasionally. I smoked marijuana.
With my boyfriend now, where it took just 6 months to get pregnant, I had the occasional drink.

So...I hope that helps.