hey there! Well I'm sorry to hear about your mom..I really hope she gets better. Maybe you should try talking to her I mean I know your mad about her comments but to tell you the truth all parents are like that even when your doing good. I know my mom is like that! But I just try to let it slide because I know I'm not what she says I am but I do understand it gets to you. Your mom is always going to love you no matter what and if YOU go talk to HER shes going to know you care and I would prefer to have tried talking to her and care for her than not doing anything and just feeling bad!Just try doing what your heart says shes your mom. And about the guys just leave everything how it is and just try to focus on the most important things in your life:*your family *yourself*your kids*YOUR LIFE! Guys come and go and the ones that really do care will stay! I really hope everything goes good with your mom and dont worry! Put a smile on your face!!