Thread: Confused...

The best thing to do is talk to your man.
Find out what's wrong and see if theres anything you both can work on to keep the relationship strong.
Communication is one of the main things in a relationship.

If nothing gets solved, then i also wouldn't know what to do next.
But if you really love him like you say you do, dont go back to NY just cuz things aren't working out, running away from your problems doesnt solve anything.

Well i hope this helps. Good luck and i hope the best for you two.

i think you should try to talk to him but find out frist what it is that you are fighting about? there must be a reason right know im going through the same problem with my man i feel what you are going through and all i can say is try..your best if you ove him try if he is worth it try if he is a good man try,look at all the good qualities first and then look at the bad ones. if you love him i know is hard to walk away. i hope you work it out i really do!!

Originally Posted by cheryl777

I love my man with all my heart....i moved from ny to fl to be with him....all we do is fight everyday and it never seems to get any different...we say we will talk about stuff but we never do...Sometimes i feel like there is nothing left between us and i just dont know what to do...Sometimes i just want to go back to ny and give up on everything, i want to be happy with him and Im so sick of fighting everyday about ****** stuff......what should i do??

Talk to him. Don't accuse or argue. Tell him what is bothering you...or ask what is bothering him. Don't raise your voice. Just speak plainly about your feelings. That is my best advice....

cheryl777, are you still with your man? Are you still arguing alot? If you are, can you tell me what the arguments are about?