Just know that most married men don't leave their wives. It is so much easier for them to keep things the way they are.
It is very rare that a man will leave their wife for the girlfriend. If the wife does find out about you, she will still stay...at least for a while, until it is her turn to cheat on him. Then you will already be a long way down the road when that happens.
Take care.

Withoutyou,
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Nothing good will come to you for doing this act of sleeping with a married man you should be a sham for yourself and carma is a motha so after that bull is all said and done you will most likely find someone else that might seem so wonderful and they would do it to you. Life is to short for you to be suck on ****** so move on and leave him the hell alone.

You are naive. Married man tell this to every woman they date. Get out while you can and leave that poor woman with that not cool guy.

Honey, this is the oldest line in the book "I'll leave her..."

At the moment he's got it good - two women on the go, one with probably no idea what's going on, the other patiently waiting.

Whatever else he's got going for him, you know two things for sure: he is a liar, and he is a cheat.

You deserve better. Walk away with your head high and don't waste your life waiting for this man, very few do leave their wives in the end.

u cant help it that u have fallen for a guy that has a wife no one can help who they fall for . , the thing it to draw the line , he has to make a choose u of his wife , either way someone will lose someone they love , either u or he , i'm not agreeing that its right what yall two are doing , the thing is how long and why are u still his gf if he so called going to leave his wife , i dont think he will i think he is using u because he's lacking it at home . the thing is if this has been going on for a while then he's not leaving her ,he's just trying to make u stay around as long as he can make u ,and beside once a cheat always a cheat. and ur not helping , think about how his wife feels . and think about what if u was his wife and he was doing this to u and u didn't know.

Don't you think more of yourself than to take some other woman's hand-me-down-husband? This isn't about the endless list of things that are obviously wrong about him. You need to take look at yourself and see what is making you treat yourself so bad. Aren't you worth better than second place?

I've been there. Even if he decides to leave his wife for you, he'll cheat on you too.

We got married and a year into the relationship he had an affair.Take my advise, it's nice while it's going on but it's not worth the trouble.

When I first began to write about this topic
in 1989 I did a piece on 'the Other Woman'
and dozens of letters came into the Newspaper
and were published...(most unproofread tho'
***** was taken out)...and certain things
became evident.

I'll give you an example.

Jasmine would give Andy fellatio until he came in her
mouth and she would swallow it.

Andy's wife wouldn't put his penis near her face as
Andy was not the cleanest person you ever wished
to meet.

Andy told Jasmine his wife was mentally imbalanced,
(isn't that standard?) and he would leave her shortly.
And of course, Jasmine believed every word.

Andy never left his wife. He enjoyed telling
his mates how Jasmine swallowed his cum and the
chaps were there asking, "Can I get a washoff too?"

It took time for Jasmine to appreciate why the men
made those slurping sounds when she walked into
the bar to meet her beloved Andy.

Finally, after months and months of waiting for
Andy to divorce his wife, (who of course was a busy
professional woman, not mentally imbalanced and
not all that enamoured of Andy) Jasmine realises
what has been going on.

Andy, the big player, finds someone else
so tells Jasmine he's going back to his wife,
whom he's never left.

Jasmine catches him at the bar with another one,
a fight breaks out, everyone claims Jasmine caused
it, she's arrested, she's charged with all sorts of
offenses.

Andy's new girl, Simone, claims during the fight
Jasmine stole her bling valued at how many
thousands of dollars.

I am retained to 'defend' Jasmine, and need the
story, and get it.

(I am explaining why I wound up knowing so much
about these topics)

There's a consciousness raising group for women like
Jasmine and I sit in and listen to their various stories.

It is basically, condensed to th