Not every guy who wants to be in a relationship wants to have the distraction of a two year old. That being said, there are plenty of others would not have a problem with that situation.
You have listed a number of qualities that most guys would like. What other qualities have you listed in your online questionnaire, have you disclosed having a young child and are you limiting yourself to the charmers and bad boys? Maybe a better fit with having a child would be a guy who wanted to settle down and was a committed provider. Maybe a little too vanilla for you.
Are you working? Are you a partyer or more of a homebody?