Thread: Would you date a cuckold?

Historically, a cuckold is any guy whose wife has cheated on him. In the event of a proper divorce and emotional recovery, sure. I'd date a guy who had been cheated on.

But I wouldn't date a guy for whom being cuckolded is a fantasy. I wouldn't be able to fulfill it.

Originally Posted by Little

But I wouldn't date a guy for whom being cuckolded is a fantasy. I wouldn't be able to fulfill it.

That was an excellent explanation of cuckolding. I'd just add that it seems to be a very popular fantasy among men, but not all men want to see it through to the end. Many just want to be teased with the idea, then back out before it becomes a reality. At least that has been my experience as I've talked to friends and folks online.

Many men who have have a cuckolding fantasy are also into being submissive in the bedroom. That may take the form of pegging (strap-on play), male chastity play or light bondage and teasing. Somehow they're all connected in the male brain. I'm just not exactly sure how.

Originally Posted by cat_like_reflexes

Learned a new word today. Basically I think it's where the woman can cheat and the man worships her anyway.

I dated a cuckold guy when I was in my 20s although it didn't start off like that and I had no clue at the time that there was a term for such a relationship.

I was in a very short relationship with a guy I had known in college. Really sweet guy but the sparks weren't there and I tried to call it off after a few months. He said he still wanted to be friends which was cool with me although I knew he was hoping that we would become an item again. I figured that as soon as I started dating someone new, the first guy would get the message and move on. Instead, he went out of his way to tell me how great he thought it was that I was dating someone new and how OK he was with it. It got to the point that he we were talking on the phone or over a coffee almost every night or every morning after one of my dates. I was reluctant to go into detail at first but he kept asking and eventually I stopped holding anything back. We talked about the kissing and sex and everything else in a detail that I have never even shared with anyone else. At the time, I started thinking that maybe he was gay and I kinda enjoyed the 'girl' talk with him and the support that he always gave me. Whether a date had gone good or bad, I could always count on having him available to talk it out afterwards.

It was only after six months or so that he sat me down one night and told me how much my sleeping with other guys had turned him on. The problem was that he also wanted to start becoming sexual with me again while still giving me complete freedom to go out with other guys. I never let him have sex with me but I let him do a lot of other things and, while the physical sensations were nice, it really made me feel guilty like I was taking advantage of him in some way.

Originally Posted by Susanna McDonald

I dated a cuckold guy when I was in my 20s although it didn't start off like that and I had no clue at the time that there was a term for such a relationship.

I was in a very short relationship with a guy I had known in college. Really sweet guy but the sparks weren't there and I tried to call it off after a few months. He said he still wanted to be friends which was cool with me although I knew he was hoping that we would become an item again. I figured that as soon as I started dating someone new, the first guy would get the message and move on. Instead, he went out of his way to tell me how great he thought it was that I was dating someone new and how OK he was with it. It got to the point that he we were talking on the phone or over a coffee almost every night or every morning after one of my dates. I was reluctant to go into detail at first but he kept asking and eventually I stopped holding anything back. We talked about the kissing and sex and everything else in a detail that I have never even shared with anyone else. At the time, I started thinking that maybe he was gay and I kinda enjoyed the 'girl' talk with him and the support that he always gave me. Whether a date had gone good or bad, I could always count on having him available to talk it out afterwards.

It was only after six months or so that he sat me down one night and told me how much my sleeping with other guys had turned him on. The problem was that he also wanted to start becoming sexual with me again while still giving me complete freedom to go out with other guys. I never let him have sex with me but I let him do a lot of other things and, while the physical sensations were nice, it really made me feel guilty like I was taking advantage of him in some way.

My guy told me a very similar story about how he got into cukolding and chastity play. His ex broke up with him and broke his heart. She felt bad for him and they stayed friends. He, of course, wanted to know every detail of her dating life. It hurt him to hear the details but he couldn't bear to not know. Soon he foud himself getting turned on by hearing everything and he didn't know why. They tried several things. She would tie him up in his apartment and leave him there while she went out on dates. Eventually they discovered male chastity play and she had him locked up for weeks at a time. Apparently it was all very exciting and taboo and it really helped him transform what would have been a terribly sad and lonely transition into an exciting and sexy game.

Man I love hearing girly chat...

I can tell you without a doubt boys talk is no-where near this good...

A few months ago my husband of 13 years said he was interested in a Cockolding relationship. He also wants to experiment with Male Chasity.

I think it is better to be with someone for a while and in a open and trusted realtionship before I would want to experiment with cockolding.

This is a good article on it.
edit link-not allowed

Originally Posted by bluepisces

A few months ago my husband of 13 years said he was interested in a Cockolding relationship. He also wants to experiment with Male Chasity.

Yeah, I agree that cuckolding is a very delicate thing. If you're not sure you're ready then it's probably best to leave it in the fantasy realm for a while. But chastity play is just fine. In fact it will most definitely make your relationship stronger. You might explore chastity with him while teasing him about his cuckolding fantasies to make the whole experience more intense. He's lucky to have such an understanding wife.