Thread: What Happened? Everything Was Fine!

I met this great man about 2 months ago, We decided that we we're going to be together and all of a sudden he tells me that he's moving to new jersey for a better job. Let me explain my story. I thought that I was the luckiest woman in the world I finally found a man that wanted everything that I wanted in a relationship. He made me feel what every women wanted in a man romance, affection, happiness,I thought I found my soul mate. He told me that he was content with me. I don't understand why he did this. I was starting to fall for him hard if I haven't already done so, I mean we had a little argument thursday,but I thought he was mad at me so he did'nt answer his phone the past couple of days,so I began to worry and cry,and finally he picked up and said he was never mad at me and he could hear that i was crying and told me that he was just going to not tell me anything he wasn't going to even call anymore he said that in his own words that he was going to let me die off of him. I began to get hysterical I can't belive this. I miss him so much. He won't even answer my calls he was my prince charming at least i thought he was please help me.

Stay out of it.
The best thing you do is stay out of the whole ex/child scene.

In one case the man decided to bring the child for a weekend
and the woman said, fine, I'll leave.
The child never came.

The child never came because once it was clear that he
was on his own with that child, that she was not going
to be part of that scene, he made his choice.

You can not be put into this pushme-pullyou situation.

She is using the child as a hold on him, we all know it.
He might not.

But if it comes to a point where you two are going out
and she rings up about the kid, then you go out alone.
Don't let her ruin your life.

Stay out of that scene, he has to work it through himself.
Never let it be said that you made him or you stopped him,
you just live your life, and he has to know that his past
stays in the past.